Day 21 - oh, I do!

Day 21: everything you wish for in a significant other

I was really hoping to avoid this one.  It seems a little personal (I guess when there's a possibility and you don't want to come off as judgmental)

I'm not sure if my opinion will change here in a few days.  I've listened to friends and family argue over my diagnosis and treatment options.  Maybe that's why I'm so scared of what's to happen....  Some are for the treatment, others are afraid that I'll be a different person (they actually love me for me!  .... and don't want me to change).

ANYWAY  (tangents aside), everything I wish for...

geez...  it's changed so many times....

I always wanted someone taller than me (doesn't matter how much, but if you're 6'9''- you're pushing it)

Always wanted someone musically inclined (though this has changed because I don't like show-offy jerks)

Always wanted someone kind (blah, generic)

A priesthood holder is a plus (though, it hadn't been a requirement until recently-ish, still teetering)

Temple worthy is always nice (though I can't require when I'm not myself)

Able to cook (plus not a requirement)

Be good with kids (cuz heaven knows I'm not)

Be good with pets (cuz I have LOTS!)

Have a sense of humor (cuz I require it- I'm a dork [currently])

Be good in social situations (cuz I'm an awkward turtle)

Be a man and (mostly) take initiative (I have creative/lazy lapses)

Be willing- generic statement to mean so much.
  Be willing to talk to me.  Be willing to try.  Be willing to put forth an effort.  Be willing to work with me.  Be willing to put up with my not-so-good qualitites.  Be willing to try new things, new adventures.  Be willing to go out on a limb with me.  Just, be willing.