Day 54 Love is...

day 54: your definition of love

That's a loaded question....

My definition of love seems to be way different than most peoples.  I love very easily. I'll tell people I don't know very well that I love them, and by my definition, I do.

Love to me is a choice that you make when you decide that that person is worth something to you. For every person that I love, I would give and do anything within my power to help them succeed, be happy, and along their way in life.  It isn't about romantic interest, it isn't about sex- it is about forever though. Regardless of what these people may do to me in the future, if any of them were to reach out and ask for my help, I would give it to them. I love them- plain and simple. We're here to help each other. I try to live by the golden rule, I fail at that occasionally, but if I asked for help- I would want someone to help me, even if I knew I had hurt them, I genuinely needed their help.  I want to be a forever resource to all my friends and family, though we may drift apart, though we may fight, though I haven't talked to you in decades- I will be your resource if you need me. I'm your forever friend, if you need me, you'll never have to be alone in your ordeal.  While you may use me, which some have, I'm glad I will be able to help you.  God loves us unconditionally, why can't we do that amongst ourselves? We're all in this together, ya know...